I have often seen people trying to become like someone or pretending to be something. Forgetting about themselves, they are keen into producing the things that are not productive. It is time-consuming and frustrating. But in a sense of aggression, they don’t bother to think and rethink on what they are still up to.

I have never tried to portray a specific role but I am surely into grooming myself i.e., personality grooming. Earlier, I used to think about how I am or how are others but later I realised whether they can become like me? If not, then why should I try to become a photocopy. Ultimately, I won’t be original and being unique is my passion.

Uniqueness v/s competition and insecurities

I never relate myself to any person no matter how close we are. I have my personality which I don’t think that anyone can take over. Uniqueness makes us feel free as we don’t have any competition left nor do any insecurity exists.

Here, I would like to mark a few inspirational quotes:

• Allow your passion to become your purpose, and it will one day become your profession.

The main purpose behind you being a unique person should be your passion. If you are not sure about what it is going to be or how you are going to make it then you’ll never be able to move ahead. Learn to carry your uniqueness as your profession.

• Develop a passion for learning. If you do, you will never cease to grow

You should never stop learning because learning guarantees new discoveries. You should always tempt to learn what you ought to and never give up. This way nothing can be a hindrance for you.

How to become Unique?

Do you think that there are a different set of efforts required to become unique? Here are some other perception and a reality that you may realize is true:

• Being yourself: There is always freedom in being what we are. If we are satisfied with ourselves than we hardly need to search to look the other way. We think of changes only when we are not satisfied with ourselves. So where is the satisfaction?
• Satisfaction: It is a complete word. It means inner-piece when you are completely relaxed and you are not clinging with a feeling of insecurity or competition. This is the time when you don’t care. You are your competition and you have to fight with yourself to get the best out of you.
• Show Kindness: Many of us may not notice but kindness plays an important role in grooming a unique personality. People will notice you the most when you are kind. Kindness can mean a gesture of help and a sweet smile on your face.
• Confidence: Do you feel inferior in terms of confidence, looks, or any materialistic things? You should not feel this. The absence of these elements brings confidence within you. Confidence is a great tool to make you look unique. When you are 100% sure about yourself then you are definitely going to groom.
• Challenge and prove yourself daily: Accept the productive challenges. You may feel that you are good at nothing. It’s ok.. Initially, no one is good at nothing. It is our daily task to smile and do at least one thing that you are unsure about. You are ultimately going to win or lose. If you lose, try to make it again and if you win then keep enhancing.
• Being Unique: Mix the above points then see a change in you. You’ll be meeting a different personality.

Start slaying that being unique is your passion.